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Research has established that psychotherapy is beneficial to addressing
many types of symptoms including marital problems, parent-child issues,
depression, anxiety, life transitions, stress, trauma and health issues.
It is not unusual for a couple or family to resist the decision to find
a therapist, often for months if not years. Only when their situation
reaches a state of crisis do they take action on getting help. Often
they have tried to handle everything on their own or find that family
and friends lack the objectivity to be helpful beyond feeling better for
the moment. Most are out of options and at a loss for what to do. Many
know what they need to do but struggle with the obstacles.
I offer an objective and broad perspective on the problem in a way that
taps into your strengths and resources. Most people report feeling
calmer within a few meetings. When this happens, the ability to think
more clearly about the problem improves and possibilities for addressing
it come into focus. In marriages, each person reduces blame of the other
or self and identifies long-standing underlying patterns in the
relationship. As you get more objective about your part in the patterns,
change becomes more possible. In families, the child has an opportunity
to clarify ways to improve their own self-responsibility. The parents
learn about the ways their relationship may be contributing to the
issues with their child and focus more on their part in the problem.
Some have found it helpful to focus on the family relationship patterns
through the generations that contribute to the current problem. |